I previously worked as a primary school teacher and have significant concerns about the safety—both mental and physical—of school environments for kids. Here’s why I’m considering home schooling:
I’ve observed bullying not just among students but from teachers as well. It’s disheartening to see children being put down by those who should be their protectors and mentors.
An incident that particularly upset me involved a young girl and a teacher, which suggested inappropriate behavior.
The risk children pose to each other. For example, I saw very young children physically pushing a baby.
Given these experiences, I’m leaning towards not sending my son to school until he’s old enough to speak up effectively for himself. In the meantime, I’d ensure he still interacts with peers through various activities.
I understand the importance of learning social skills in school, but personal interactions haven’t vastly enriched my social circle.
This is concerning indeed, but remember, not all schools reflect the same issues. There are pros and cons to every decision like this. Social skills are crucial and typically developed in varied social settings. How do you plan to address potential gaps in social learning?
@Unber
Thanks for your input. I plan to involve him in diverse group activities outside of school hours—sports, arts, and social clubs to encourage both self-expression and social interaction.
ScholarlySpark said: @Unber
Thanks for your input. I plan to involve him in diverse group activities outside of school hours—sports, arts, and social clubs to encourage both self-expression and social interaction.
Even in those settings, challenges will arise, such as disagreements with peers or guidance from coaches. It’s all part of growing up.
@Washington
Absolutely, and that’s expected. My main issue is with the disproportionate power dynamics in schools, where teachers might misuse their authority.
ScholarlySpark said: @Washington
Absolutely, and that’s expected. My main issue is with the disproportionate power dynamics in schools, where teachers might misuse their authority.
It sounds like your experiences, while valid, may not represent the broader situation. Most educators strive to foster a positive learning environment.
@Sophia2
Perhaps my views are shaped by a limited set of experiences, but they were formative. I’ve left the teaching profession and am considering this path to protect and better educate my son based on what I’ve witnessed.
@ScholarlySpark
It’s important to base decisions on comprehensive data rather than isolated incidents. Consider exploring various educational settings to find the best fit for your son.
Sophia2 said: @ScholarlySpark
It’s important to base decisions on comprehensive data rather than isolated incidents. Consider exploring various educational settings to find the best fit for your son.
That’s fair advice. I’m exploring all options to ensure I make the most informed decision possible. Thank you for the dialogue.
ScholarlySpark said: @Washington
Absolutely, and that’s expected. My main issue is with the disproportionate power dynamics in schools, where teachers might misuse their authority.
While it’s true that no environment is without its flaws, exposure to a variety of social settings, including school, prepares children for the world.
ScholarlySpark said: @Unber
Thanks for your input. I plan to involve him in diverse group activities outside of school hours—sports, arts, and social clubs to encourage both self-expression and social interaction.
Joining a homeschooling group can provide a balanced education and socialization. It’s worth considering as it can offer a supportive community and diverse experiences.
ScholarlySpark said: @zane
Appreciate your suggestion! It’s good to hear from those who’ve had positive experiences with homeschooling. What did you enjoy most about it?
The flexibility and the ability to learn at my own pace were huge benefits. It allowed for a tailored educational experience that aligned with my interests and learning style.
It’s troubling to hear about your experiences. Transitioning from home schooling to secondary school can be challenging, especially during adolescence.
SarahJackson said:
It’s troubling to hear about your experiences. Transitioning from home schooling to secondary school can be challenging, especially during adolescence.
Many parents find ways to integrate specialized teachers for subjects like math or science, which can help mitigate the lack of exposure to different teaching styles.
@ScholarlySpark
School provides a structured environment where kids learn to navigate social complexities. Missing out on this can make later adjustments harder.